Most all women consider themselves to be Queens just because they are women. But that isn't true. Queen is a title that has to be earned. You have to be willing to put in the time, effort, and work to be a woman who deserves the title of Queen. You can't put in little time, effort, and work like a Princess and expect to be called a Queen. You have to be willing to go through some things, do some things, and make sacrifices, even when it's hard. Especially when it's hard. Not every woman is built or made to be a Queen. When I say you have to put in the work, I don't just mean physical work. As a Queen to your King, you need to be willing to do your part. It's your job to bring him comfort in any way possible. Bring him peace. Be his home. Be his soft place to land. Respect him. Show him you appreciate him. Be supportive of him Be loyal to him. Be faithful to him. Share with him. Stand by him through the good times and the bad. In prosperity and in want. In sickness and in health. Celebrate him. Console him. Trust him. Confide in him. Share his load with him. Be considerate of him and his feelings. Above all else LOVE him the way HE DESERVES to be Loved. Be there for him physically when possible, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Pray for your King daily. Cover him with prayer and a hedge of protection continuously.  Remember little things matter just as much as the big things. Something as simple as a little note on the teapot that says I'm thinking about you, or I love you can change his whole day. A smile from you when he's nervous about something can give him the confidence he needs. A look that says I've got you can help him relax when he's tense or had a bad day. When you are apart, make sure he knows how much you love him and that he can count on you to always have his back. Sit with him in the silence. Give him space when he needs it but stay close enough to be there when he's ready for you. Remember his time is just as valuable as yours. he has many things and people with whom he must divide his time. Be sure he feels valued. Bring him joy and happiness daily. Live your life and do things in a way that makes him proud to call you his Queen. Final thought. Go to your King and ask him if the way you present and carry yourself, makes him feel that you are deserving of being called his Queen. If he says yes, great, keep up the good work. If he says no, don't be hurt or angry, ask him what you can do to make yourself more Queen like, then work on that. Let's all try to be a true Queen and not a just a Princess.